Review of Christian Mingle: Pro’s & Con’s

Introduction to Christian Mingle

Singles searching for love based on a common faith in God and Jesus Christ should look no further than Christian Mingle. Since 1997, the niche dating site has helped spark relationships, and subsequently many marriages among like-minded Christians around the world. A visit to the website even reveals a lovely Bible-inspired passage for those who are looking for their someone special: “Love is patient. Love is kind. Love is here.” Love is definitely here indeed, or the potential for love at least. Since its launch, the dating site has earned the distinction of being the largest Christian dating site in the world. While it is free to sign up for an initial membership, those singles out there who are really serious about finding their special someone should definitely consider paying for an upgrade to Standard membership with the option to choose between one month, two months, or three months, and renew since a paid membership offers more benefits when it comes to browsing and actually communicating with matches.

With its user-friendly design and easy-to-understand sections and buttons, Christian Mingle makes it easy for people to search for potential partners. The simple sign up can be done with an email address or using a Facebook account, and then it’s time to set up a profile. The security and safety of users on Christian Mingle are extremely important, and the site offers secure online dating and implements a number of measures including 48 to 72-hour approval of photos upon submission.

There are no shortage of individuals from around the world looking for love online. In fact, Christian Mingle attracts 60,000 new members per month, single men and women, all wanting real partnerships based on spirituality, faith, and similar beliefs in God. It is interesting to note that an outside study of American Christians revealed that nearly 30 percent of all Christian marriages that originated online began on Christian Mingle.


Affordable, easy to navigate and offering access to numerous matches, Christian Mingle is a popular platform for people to meet like-minded single Christians. While the site focuses on Christians dating, there are actually users of different denominations and beliefs. For those who are curious and not sure whether online dating is for them in the first place, Free Membership is a great way to test the unknown waters. With this level of membership, people can create a profile by selecting their discovery preferences based on their ideal match’s gender, age, location and relationship type. In addition, free members are able to browse their potential partners through a database featuring a filter function ranging from new members to who’s online, distance, match percentage and more. Every day, users receive a list of match recommendations based on compatible profiles. If free members see anyone they like, they can show their interest by sending winks; they are also able to send and read messages that they receive from other paid subscribers.  

Paying for membership to Christian Mingle has a few great perks. For instance, paid subscribers are actually the only ones able to send messages to anyone on the dating site. Plus, they can browse anonymously, have access to privacy filters and see if another person reads their messages. Having a paid membership offers members more control in their search for love online. 

Other useful features of the dating site include a match percentage indicating likelihood of compatibility, a straightforward easy to understand layout design that makes it simple for users to figure out where to browse profiles, see potential matches, among other key functions. There is also a Look Book feature allowing users to heart or X a profile.

Another helpful feature is the blog, or magazine, called “Believe.” On these pages, there are inspiring, real-life success stories as well as helpful feature articles touching on everything from “Spiritual Singles: Finding Your Soulmate” to “Christian Dating,” “Expert Insights: Rethinking Love: (It’s More Than Just Emotion)” and more. The Christian Mingle app offers added convenience for finding love from your smartphone anywhere you go.


One of the main advantages of Christian Mingle is the simple sign-up process. It only takes a few minutes, and users can select whether they want to use their email or Facebook log-in to register. From there, users fill out their profile, choose an original username and upload at least one photo. It is always best to include more than one photo so that others have a better idea of what you look like, as well as information to see if they would like to get to know you better.

The profile questions are thorough with fields for important details ranging from marital status to education, occupation, drinking habits, to more Christianity-oriented information such as religion and church attendance. Members also have the opportunity to share their dating preferences, whether they prefer a coffee/tea date, having drinks, doing an activity and more. Knowing this information ahead of time can help with the planning of the first date should you decide to take the connection offline and into real life, and in-face meetings.

Finding the “one” on Christian Mingle is supported through the “Discovery” function, which allows users to narrow down criteria for their ideal match. Options include gender, race, age range, distance and height.

Christian Mingle does its best to make sure that people on the site say who they are and also does everything it can to prevent fake profiles. They are also proactive about addressing online scammers and inappropriate behavior, ensuring that its members feel comfortable, safe and secure in their online dating experience. For example, all photos must be approved before they go live on the site, and that typically takes 24 to 48 hours. In addition, members don’t have to user their real names, nor are they allowed to include personal contact information, both of which add other layers of safe, secure browsing. Of course, their safety tips come in handy when mingling online.

Another big plus is the site’s pool of prospective Christian partners, as it holds the distinction of connecting over 16 million people around the world, as well as attractive over 1 million monthly visitors.

For those members who need assistance, whether it’s troubleshooting, payment, or other problems with the app, they will be glad to know that customer support is available 24/7 via email or chat.

One other plus to note is that being a member of Christian Mingle expands the pool of potential partners, who you would have otherwise not have encountered in real life, so that’s another advantage.


Although Christian Mingle is obviously geared toward Christians looking for love, the dating site actually welcomes anyone no matter their religious background. This can be seen as a drawback for those individuals who are actively seeking a like-minded Christian partner.

Some females may view the primarily female-member site as somewhat of a hindrance, with women accounting for a slight majority of the user base.

Also, while people who subscribe for a free membership can browse through different profiles, there is limited communication, making connecting with others difficult unless you subscribe for a standard membership, or a standard member messages you first.

As with any online dating site, you can’t really know if there is a connection unless you meet someone in person. While Christian Mingle does have a strict policy in terms of its photo verification process, you still never know if there are a few bad eggs out there and misrepresenting themselves online.

People who have used the site have also said that searching for matches can be time-consuming as it is with any other site. The Christian Mingle database has millions of potential partners and it takes an investment of time to look for the one.


Singles interested in seeing what Christian Mingle is all about can sign up for absolutely free. However, users will certainly increase their visibility and chance to spark romance by upgrading to a Standard Membership, which means access to more tools such as chat messaging.

The Standard Membership is available at different price points depending on the duration of the membership, so $49.99 for one month, $34.99 for three months and $24.99 for six months. As you can tell, the longer you make a committment, the more affordable it becomes to be a member on Christian Mingle. In addition, the Standard Membership offers access to a chat messaging tool to get the conversations started.

As for the payment, Christian Mingle accepts major credit cards as well as a check to Sparks Network USA.


Overall, Christian Mingle seems to be a popular dating site among its user base. Just looking at the many photos of the happily married couples and former members on the site’s Belief blog will definitely have you believing, love with like-minded Christians is absolutely possible. Ultimately, it is about similar people having similar values, looking for someone to share their life’s journey with, and this site seems to deliver on helping people make, meaningful, spiritual connections, whether for short-term dating or something more serious down the road. Unlike other sites, faith and values are an inherent part of the Christian Mingle community and the site could be the answer to many people’s prayers about love. Amen to that and hopefully there will be many blessings when it comes to love!